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Evolution of God III



   Why the concept of God is so strong, how it persisted through the test of time. It must have some great utility otherwise it would not be an integral part of our society. Two causes, love and fear may cause one to believe in God. We find solace in God from all the unknown dangers and uncertainties. But in our daily life, how the God helps. Even if one doesn’t believe in God the way religions propagate it, there is such a great utility in an impersonal concept of God that one can hardly ignore. It takes pressure out of you. If you are a creative person, you can attribute cause of your creativity to the God, and will it cost anything? No. But it will save you from the pressure to perform. If you do well, it’s God’s grace, if not, God didn’t want it to happen. There are so many uncontrollable and uncertain things in this world that limit us and no matter how much effort we make, we cannot do everything.  And when we fail, we need to attribute those failures caused by the external variables to some other entity. Otherwise we will have to bear the burden of failure unless we attribute that to God. And if we win, the vanity may attack us so we attribute that too to God’s grace. That’s what probably learned people would have tried to suggest when they said to submit oneself to the lord or God. But unfortunately many a times it is misinterpreted by leaving everything on God. When the concept of God, being a mean of our psychological well being, becomes the end in itself and the purpose of our existence, we are in trouble. We are not here for God; we have created or assumed a God to be there so that we live happily. But when we start living to achieve or reach God, we are missing the point. We are making our means, our end.
    However, this means-end-displacement is a very common phenomenon. Another example is money, which is a necessary tool for a comfortable life but we end up losing all our comforts just to earn money. So as far as God is to keep us humble and sober, save us from vanity and depression, we are good. But when we get obsessed with this human created concept, going to the extreme of its interpretation as if God is everything and we are nothing, we demean the very existence of ours. And of course when a belief or faith comes into picture, we can’t talk about rationality. Can anyone argue why so many bad things happen in this world if there is a God? No. Some say that it’s the result of their bad karmas. But then why God let them do those bad karma’s in the first place. Some says it’s not God’s job to take care of everything, well, then why is he therefore? These arguments are of no use as soon the logic goes miles away and people get sentimental. On the other hand so called atheist ignore the utility of the concept of God. If a person is so mature and psychologically sound that he can bear responsibility for everything and bear the pressure of success and failure equally and easily, he or she may not need a God. But not all have that power and capacity, so it’s easier to leave it on God.

    It’s difficult to take a balanced view here. That’s why people are so confused, that’s why there are so many religions, so many types of God.  Sometimes they exploit people by frightening them in the name of God. God and religion can be tools of power politics also. No one knows about God but all claims their version to be right despite the fact that it is imaginary. But by misinterpreting this concept, we can do a lot of harm to self and others. Anything based on fear and force cannot be right. Religion has its cultural value and it should remain so. It is not transcendent to the human existence itself. We should not blindly believe anything. It should be backed by reason and should not be detrimental to humanity itself. It is difficult to agree with a view that demeans being human and sees human life a sin and only objective of it being with the God again. If there is a God, why would he make this world and us only if we are supposed to leave this world and get assimilated in Him? If He is arbitrary, then he is hardly a God. If He is omnipresent, then why we need to go elsewhere to meet him. If he is omnipotent, then why so much chaos in the world. There are numerous inconsistencies in religious dictums and their concept of God, but we can’t argue as people have forgotten that we have created those concepts and they didn’t come from the heaven. It is almost impossible to argue against a belief system. Whatever serves the purpose of those in power, they will defend it with all means. Very few religions allow dissent. If something is static and doesn’t change with time, how can it be called alive. And how can we follow a dead thing!

why everyone want to be on facebook

    I asked these questions to myself today. Why everyone with net access want to be on facebook? What is so peculiar about FB and other social websites like youtube or blogs on internet? Why the virtual world has become so important in our life? What is the biggest difference in our life in virtual world and real world? and the answer that came in to my mind was "Equality". It's this quality of equality that has made social media so popular. No one is no one's boss or superior or subordinates...their are just friends or friends of friends or friends of friends of......friends. And in Equality, a sense of empowerment is inherent. Here everyone is important. Of course all of us has raised ourself to the status of a mini celebrity, which has its side effect too but yet, a common man (and woman and children too of course ) of real world is a really important person. And those who are not so good in real world can very well pretend to be as good as they want to be. The social media on internet give us an opportunity to fill the gap between our 'real self' and 'ideal self', which is certainly a very important factor in giving us a sense of identity. There are certain anomalies and negative sides of this virtual reality, be it net addiction or compromise to our privacy, we still don't want to give it up. This probably tells us what we actually want from real world...a little sense of importance, a sense of care and of course a sense of equality and empowerment. The distance and limitation of the physical world disappear in the virtual world. The freedom of expression be exercised so vividly on the internet. You can say anything about anyone or anything so candidly. The virtual world has transcended the geographical and political boundaries. We have a platform to know the people of the rest of the world, (even if we don't know a person living on the next door but that's a different aspect of the story of our ever changing society). We tend to share our life, express ourself and want to about everything happening to everyone everywhere in this world. At least virtually we are unified.

my favourite quotes 2

The fate of love is that it always seems too little or too much.
Amelia Barr

We either make ourself miserable or we make ourself strong, the amount of work is same.

Before we acquire great power we must acquire wisdom to use it well.

A man is what he thinks the whole day!

Anger is the feeling that makes your mouth work faster than your mind.

Life is run on heuristics , not on algorithms!

A witty saying proves nothing.
Voltaire

All the reasonings of men are not worth one sentiment of women.
Voltaire

The first recipe for happiness is: Avoid too lengthy meditation on the past.

The effectiveness of work increases according to geometric progression if there are no interruptions.
Andre Maurois

Communication gap is the root of every problem.

Arriving at one goal is the starting point to another.

Anyone who has begun to think, places some portion of the world in jeopardy.
-John Dewey

Failure is instructive. The person who really thinks learns quite as much from his failures as from his successes.
-John Dewey

Discontent is the first necessity of progress.
Thomas A. Edison

Just because something doesn't do what you planned it to do doesn't mean it's useless.
Thomas A. Edison

What a man's mind can create, man's character can control.

Discontent is the first necessity of progress.
Thomas A. Edison

thought of the day

Choices we make each moment give direction to our life.

My favorite quotes

Some of my favorite quotes from http://www.brainyquote.com

Every great and deep difficulty bears in itself its own solution. It forces us to change our thinking in order to find it.

E
verything we call real is made of things that cannot be regarded as real.

A physicist is just an atom's way of looking at itself.
by Niels Bohr

Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.
Les Brown

From the deepest desires often come the deadliest hate.

By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.
Socrates

I never see what has been done; I only see what remains to be done.

Love is metaphysical gravity.

Now there is one outstanding important fact regarding spaceship earth, and that is that no instruction book came with it.

R. Buckminster Fuller


A real decision is measured by the fact that you've taken a new action. If there's no action, you haven't truly decided.

In life you need either inspiration or desperation.

One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in particular.

Only those who have learned the power of sincere and selfless contribution experience life's deepest joy: true fulfillment.

Tony Robbins

Dust does rise, doesn't it? And so can I.
Dionne Warwick


Some more:

Appologising doesn't mean that your are wrong and other is right…It only means that you value your relationship more than you're your ego.

You are happy when you choose to be happy।

If everybody is happy with you, you have made lot of compromises in your life.

LET THE THINGS HAPPEN!!!

Thoughts of the day!!

o Every one owns one’s struggle in life!!

o I though I am knowing more… but actually I was getting aware of the fact that I know nothing.

o A philosopher is a confused person trying to understand life. And that person resides with-in all of us!

Thought of the day

Life is too short, so break rules, forgive quickly, believe slowly, love truly, laugh loudly and never avoid anything that makes you smile instantly!!

J

Happy Living!

thought of the day!!!

I am not afraid of death.. I just fear its consequences!!
-me

THINK ABOUT…

Here are the few beautiful lines that always fascinate me...
some i heard...some i read..and some are my own!!!

If u can’t help urself...do help others!!!

When u can’t help it…leave it on God!

Don’t fallow others…make ur own rules because nobody is perfact!!!

BELIEF:

Your are the only one and the best kind of urself …some people are better than you and some are worse but…none of them is you!!!

If you don’t believe in God....believe in yourself....and if u don’t believe in yourself...then believe me JUST start believing ...because if you can’t believe you can’t survive!!!


You can do what u believe and can’t do what u don’t believe!!!

Don’t be upset…u also believe otherwise u would not have been doing what u r doing right now!!!

HOPE
Never worry…..because if the things can be handled why to worry…and if it’s not possible there is no use of worrying!!!

You always not get what u desire but you are always not knowing what you are going to get!!!

Don’t be afraid of loosing as you were never owing any of that!!!

MISTAKES:
Just try to do wrong things …..that will make you confident about what is not right!!!

Learn from others mistakes as you can’t live long enough to make them all urself!!!

Experiance is nothing but mistakes that one did!

KNOWLEDGE:
Either you know or you don’t know ...there is no intermediate stage….so be confident about both ...what you know and what you don’t know!!!

Take risk…. Don’t give you a chance to repent for not even trying!!!

The BAD About GOOD is that has an END
BUT the GOOD thing about BAD is that it also has an END !!!

“ Make friends….they may be ur greatest achievement ”

At least once in a month…. take a break …free ur mind, forget about all the things …just enjoy the leisure!!!

Easy vs Difficult

EASY ....... DIFFICULT

Easy
is to get a place is someone's address book.
Difficult
is to get a place in someone's heart.


Easy
is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult
is to recognize our own mistakes


Easy
is to talk without thinking
Difficult
is to refrain the tongue


Easy
is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult
is to heal the wound...


Easy
is to forgive others
Difficult
is to ask for forgiveness


Easy
is to set rules.
Difficult
is to follow them...


Easy
is to dream every night.
Difficult
is to fight for a dream...


Easy
is to show victory.
Difficult
is to assume defeat with dignity...


Easy
is to admire a full moon.
Difficult
to see the other side...


Easy
is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult
is to get up...


Easy
is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult
to give its real value...


Easy
is to promise something to someone.
Difficult
is to fulfill that promise...


Easy
is to say we love.
Difficult
is to show it every day...


Easy
is to criticize others.
Difficult
is to improve oneself...


Easy
is to make mistakes.
Difficult
is to learn from them...


Easy
is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult
is to take care of it so not to lose it.


Easy
is to think about improving.
Difficult
is to stop thinking it and put it into action...


Easy
is to think bad of others
Difficult
is to give them the benefit of the doubt...


Easy
is to receive
Difficult
is to give


Easy
to read this
Difficult
to follow


Easy is keep the friendship with words

Difficult is to keep it with meanings

.

thought of the day!

Be More concerned with your character
than your reputation,
because your character is what you really are,
while your reputation
is merely what others think you are.


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It takes a minute to have a crush, an hour to like someone

and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone!

So.... Be in Touch with your friends.

stay happy!!

three things in life

 

http://www.thedashmovie.com/

 3 Things of life


Three things in life that, once gone, never come back
:-

Time   Words   Opportunity


 
Three things in life that may never be lost :-

Peace   Hope   Honesty


             
                                                                                 
 
 
Three things in life that are most valuable :-

Love   Self-confidence   Friends




Three things in life that are never certain
:-  

Dreams   Success   Fortune




Three things that make a man/woman
:-


Hard work
  Sincerity   Commitment




Three things in life that can destroy a man/woman
:-

  Alcohol   Pride   Anger




Three things in life that, once lost, hard to build-up
:-  

Respect   Trust   Friendship




Three things in life that never fail
:-  

True Love   Determination   Belief


 

things we learn from Dil Chahta hai...

i know this is a too old and will be already in fwd mail chains and blogs ..but i like it too much ..so putting it on my blog...

Things we can learn from Dil Chahta Hai.......
*Freaking out and enjoying life doesn't need drugs or cigarettes.
*There are relationships apart from bf/gf, marriage,siblings,friendship that can
be very emotional and true. which is beyond the understanding of many
people.
*And yeah even though u may be the best of friends there is always a limit
which should never be crossed. Then it starts hurting...........
*Improving ur imperfections after you realize it, always take some time.



*You always don't need to show or prove your gf/bf how much u love or care
about her/him, which can sound very boring and finally u r dumped.
*Believe in Love , true love will never let you down
*Never be ashamed to go back to your old friends, friends are there to
understand your mistakes.
*Do not be afraid of others, always think that others r afraid of
you.(Australian Beggar )
*Whenever you need your friend , remember that he is just a phone call
away...distances can't separate friends
*In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence
of our friends
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It's the friends you can call up at 4 A. M. that matter.
*The only unchangeable certainty is that nothing is certain or unchangeable.
*The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with -
never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best
conversation you've ever had.
And last but not the least- do what your heart loves karo wahi jo DIL CHAHTA HAI!!!

Dont let any friend go coz of a small misunderstanding!! they are too costly to loose!!